“SELF-LOVE, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting.” – William Shakespeare “WITH Love” all of us use this famous phrase in our life to show how much we love, and how important he/she is to us, It could be a soul mate, sibling, child, friend, country, place, etc., but did we ever addressed these phrases to our self? the probable answer is NO ! As Shakespeare explains in this wonderful quote“Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting”. Self-love is not something to be ashamed of or seen as selfish. Instead, it’s portrayed as a positive quality that contributes to one’s wellbeing and happiness. On the other hand, self-neglecting is prone to more damaging and harmful. Neglecting oneself can lead to various negative consequences, such as poor mental and physical health, low self-esteem, challenges in social life, and strained relations. We cannot dismiss the value of being selfless and caring for others. There shall be a healthy balance, we have to prioritise our own well-being without neglecting responsibilities and compassion for others. “Self-love” some sometimes mistaken as narcissism. But “Self-Love” is the foundation for a healthy, happy life, it is to be practiced with moderation and subtleness. Sometimes it is essential to say “NO”, Using own wit to say “YES” or “NO” to others’ desires/demands is vital, Learning to politely decline unreasona b l e requests is a crucial aspect of “ Self - Love”.

 

It empowers you to manage time and energy, This isn’t selfishness; it’s setting healthy boundaries. Finding the right balance between self-love and caring for others is key. Stepping outside your comfort zone for loved ones is admirable, but only when it aligns with your own well-being. Why Now? The Urgency of “Self-Love” In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get swept up in the daily grind. Days turn into weeks, months into years, and suddenly a lifetime has exhausted, often spent solely for others. “Self-love” is the antidote to this routine. “Self-love” helps to boost Immense self-esteem and make us ready for any eventuality in life, Self Pampering improves confidence levels and automatically makes us to stand “Cut above the Rest”. Self Pampering is not only grooming ourselves with updated fashions but practicing for i n n e r s o o t h i n g and calmness like practicing Yoga, Meditation regular workouts, etc., and updating ourselves on all possible fronts, like following International/National affairs, Scientific advancements worldwide, know-how of latest digital devices etc., I do pamper myself by keeping myself updated on various tech brands, space, fashion, brand awareness, Meditation, International affairs, etc., as I feel elated and bubbling.

 

The Bible reminds us to“Love your neighbor as yourself.” Loving yourself first allows you to offer authentic love and compassion to others. Think of it as a beautiful ripple effect. Radiating love to the world around us by being an epicenter is essential, first Love yourself and resonate ample love to society, As one neglects self and dedicates his whole time to others will have to face challenges related to health, stressful life, financial crunches, and more Importantly lose his quality time to for life lifetime. Practical Steps: Pamper and Take Care of yourself on top priority, Strive to adorn with the best attire and looks, Schedule your quality time for yourself Be generous in helping the needy, Volunteer yourself for help in emergencies like Health/accidents, Know your arms reach before extending help Con Amore: A Life Lived With Love Let “Con Amore” (with love) be your guiding principle. Embrace self-love, and set boundaries with grace. This holistic approach paves the way for a joyful and meaningful life, filled with love for yourself and the world around you. Be special for yourself to make people feel special