By Vijay Phanshikar :
THERE,ofcourse,areseveral formulae available
in the market for
busting stress -- including
physical exercise, playing
sports, reading, listening to
music,talkingtofriends,cooking, gardening, knitting ...!But
“doingnothing”forsometime
on a daily basis is possibly the
beststress-bustingmethod,as
suggested by many medical
doctors or psychologists or
counsellers.
Of course, in today’s world
where life is always on a fast
track and everybody appears
to be in a hurry doing this or
that,“doing nothing” may not
be easily acceptable to most.
Yet, if one
thinks a
little
deeply
about the
concept,
one may agree that “doing
nothing” may be the right
stress-busting method.
True, many other methods
may crop up with passage of
time. But until that happens,
trying the method of “doing
nothing” may help.
It is important to note that
there is a critical difference
between“notdoinganything”
and“doing nothing”.
For, “not
doing anything” has a
negative note, while “doing
nothing” has a positive note.
Some may find it difficult to
understand this fine difference.Yet, “doing nothing” has
many positive aspects that
may bring a sense of quiet to
the person who tries it.
Whenonesays,oneis“doing
nothing”, one has made a
choice of “doing” nothing. So,
one keeps aside one’s mobile
phone, switches off the television,keepsone’sbooksaside,
does not eat or drink anything
-- andonlysits quietfor sometime.Onemaycloseone’seyes
in the “doing nothing” condition -- and not say a word to
one’s own self or to anyone
else.Inthat state, one may not
even engage self in any specific thought. One may allow
thoughtstowander-- without
even trying to reach a state of
thoughtlessness.Thismaynot
becalledmeditation,sotosay.
Yet, such a condition may be
described as something akin
to meditation.
Psychologists have found
that “doing nothing” really
helpsinbustingstress--which
is one of
the most
important
reasons of
overall illhealth in
modern times.
The loud-thinker has tried
this model successfully -- find
himself having been relieved
of muchofhis stress.Onmany
occasions,his“doingnothing”
sessions get stretched over an
hour -- often yielding great
results.
Of course,reading is another stress-busting method the
loud-thinker follows religiously. However, there the
purposeisnotjuststress-busting, but also adding value to
one’s thinking or wisdom. But
readingisalsooneactivitythat
has given a near-meditative
experience.
Many people can come up
with as many methods of
stress-busting. Those who do
notharbouranyhobbyassuch
as a stress-busting methodmay try “doing nothing”
approach.