ACTOR Abhay Verma, who
essays the role of Wing
Commander Rajpal Singh
Dhaliwal in the streaming series
Operation Safed Sagar, is an
ambivert.
The actor shared that at first he
is quite shy in his social interactions but once he crosses the
threshold of comfort. He told, “I
would describe myself first as an
introvert. But if I'm comfortable,
I don't think there's any extrovert
who can match up to my energy.
I think I've always been a shy person at first. But when I feel like
opening up then I'm myself, you
will see my goofy side. I also quite
careful of my interactions because
I don't know if someone else will
call my fun as overstepping. So I
just keep my ground till I feel comfortable with them”.
Given your guards are up in the
initial stages of interaction, is your
introverted nature often mistaken for being cold?
He said,“I don't think so because
I generally come from an honest
perspective. Even if it's my extroverted sense or my introvertedness, I feel when a person comes
from honesty it travels to hearts
more than cleverness does to
minds. So whatever space I'm in,
If I'm introverted or extroverted,
it comes from honesty and a sense
of integrity”.
“So I don't think it goes in the
wrong way. It has always gone in
the right way, and hopefully I'll try
to maintain it”, he added.
The actor discussed the nature
of violence, and how he looks at
the phenomenon of wars in
civilisation.
He told IANS, “They have
feelings but they sometimes
fail to understand that the
other person is also human.
If we could only just act just
by thinking what it would
feel to be in someone else's
shoes. I think that would
really solve our problems”.
When asked if putting the
self-interest behind, and
protecting someone or
keeping someone comfortable will
lead to no violence or no wars in
the society, he said, “I think it's a
heroic thing to do. And the soldiers
who are fighting for us are doing
exactly the same”.
Operation Safed Sagar is based
on the Indian Air Force’s 1999 Kargil
War operation to drive Pakistani
troops from Indian positions along
the Line of Control. It marked the
first large-scale use of airpower in
the region since 1971.