Parents are the anchors of our life, the roots that hold us firm when the winds of change blow. Indeed! Last year, my parents and I travelled abroad for the first time. It was a big deal for us. The reason for the travel was also special. My brother’s convocation at Cardiff, Wales. None of us had ever imagined setting foot in a foreign land, let alone embarking on a full-fledged international trip. Fortunately, life gave us the opportunity and it turned out to be an enriching experience for all of us.

 

While many of my peers, the Gen Z lot, prefer solo adventures or vacations with friends, I vouch by travelling with family. It is a time to strengthen bonds, have long, uninterrupted conversations and understand each other and each other’s perspective better. And all this while having a good time holidaying. Another wonderful ‘discovery’ of this trip for me was how my brother had changed. He took care of all the bookings and finances and become this mature, responsible and caring man. It made me ask myself, What is my responsibility towards my parents? I consider myself fortunate to be living with my parents and want to make the most of this time I have with them. While I cannot help them financially, that is not all that parents expect, isn’t it?

 

There can be so many different ways in which children can help their parents, like helping in the daily chores, offering emotional support, spending quality time with them, or simply being attentive to their needs.These small efforts, though not monetary, can filled with love and good intentions. Being able to stay with one’s parents is not just a matter of comfort, it’s a blessing. And that blessing comes with a sense of duty. The youth often speaks of careers, studies or friendships, but we must never forget our responsibility towards those who raised us. Regardless of our physical strength, financial stability or emotional maturity, each one of us can contribute something valuable to our parents’ well-being. True responsibility is not defined by how much we can spend, but by how much we care. It lies in the willingness to be present, to support and to appreciate the silent sacrifices our parents make for us every day. Let’s never take that for granted.