‘Court’ing a new me
   Date :04-May-2026

Courting a new me
 
Most people find ‘their people’ in school/college or at work, somewhere along the ordinary roads of life. I found mine sweating through shuttle drills in early the mornings-- on the badminton court. My coach witnessed my entire weight loss journey, every plateau, every breakthrough, every moment I wanted to quit. His fitness drills left me gasping and sore. Yet, I dragged myself to the gym again the next morning. That’s the quiet magic of the sport, any sport...it pushes you beyond what you thought was possible. My mentor sharpened my technique and instincts; off it, he shaped my character, teaching me discipline, patience and the art of carrying both victories and defeats with the same quiet grace. With him, every rally carried a lesson that outlasted the game.
 
Conversations that began with footwork and shuttle angles drifted naturally into career, mindset, and life itself. The court became a classroom without walls. Somewhere along the way, the sharp crack of shuttlecocks turned into a familiar, comforting rhythm, a sound I now belong to. This is what sport quietly does to you. Beyond the calories burnt and muscles built, it places people in your life who see you at your most vulnerable, breathless, failing and trying. And those people, unlike most, choose to stay.
 
The teammates who push you when you slow down, the coach who believes in your potential before you do, the seniors who share wisdom between points, they rewire something deep inside you...they teach you that losing is just the rehearsal for winning, and that showing up on your worst day is the real measure of character. What started as a fitness goal became something far greater, a reminder that sports doesn’t just build bodies, it builds a community. And sometimes, the most transformative thing isn’t the game you pursue, but the people you meet along the way and person you become with them. “Not all classrooms have walls. Not all teachers carry books”.
 
By Shiwali Deshpande
Dr Ambedkar College of Law,