In Jest

The Grandma Trap

Not so long ago, I dreaded visiting certain friends and relatives. No, it wasn’t because after asking umpteen times, “What will you have?”, they served watery tea, and were stingy with snacks, but because they were grandparents. And I knew the moment I would plonk on their sofa, I was snared - in The Album Trap. Well, all of you know the kind I am referring to here - the minute you settle down, and after the pleasantries are over, out comes The Album, or these days it is the phone or the iPad. And ..

Death-defying dash

“Organised chaos,” Oprah Winfrey’s comment on Indian roads has stayed with me ever since she uttered it. Like her, and like many other visitors who travel to our great country, like the million citizens who travel on Indian roads daily, including me, we find it difficult to decipher our traffic, the purpose of our traffic rules as well as functioning of the authorities who are supposed to regulate and keep an eye on the ever burgeoning traffic. I have travelled in buses while in school and college, ..

Bovine blues!!

By Aasawari Shenolikar : I F I am asked to list two things that I love doing, without batting an eyelid I will say, swimming and walking. A true-blue Aquarian, I simply love the water, and whenever I get a chance, I will slip into any body of w..

BreakneckBreaks!!

 By Aasawari Shenolikar : L ATELY I have experienced that every six months or so, I start craving for a break from routine. At home, in the office, my mind starts wandering and I hear whispers, “Time for a break, time for a vacation.”..

Mystery of the missing millions

  By Aasawari Shenolikar :  “DID you pick up the Rs 100 note on the dining table? This was payment for the newspaper vendor,” I asked in hushed tones. It was addressed to my better half, known for his uncanny ability to clean an..

Buzz(zzz) kill

INSOMNIA - that’s what afflicts me.Very rarely, my eyes droop heavily, and I instantly enter into the world of dreamland. It’s a consistent battle every night where just as my eyes begin to close, some hormone, otherwise non-existent, suddenly kicks in, and the next moment I am wide awake. Adding to my woes are the tiny terrors of the night - the mosquitoes. If anyone asks me to list nature’s most persistent and annoying creatures - these winged vampires would occupy the top slot.I can take head on ..

Ceaseless Cacophony

T HE apartment on the 37th floor is not soundproof. However, at that height, one would assume that silence would be paramount. But in reality, itis not so - the quiet is often disturbed by the strident notes of the fire trucks, the urgent sirens of an ambulance following the fire truck, the piercing alarms of the police cars, probably chasing an offender on the roads or a part of the entourage of the fire truck. The cacophonous notes, wafting across to the upper floors, often break thequietude,disturbing ..

Dr Google Paging

Since the time Internet has made inroads into my life,the one thing that I have learnt is that if you Google something, Google will instantly help youout with almost any query under the Sun.On second thoughts, let’s delete that ‘almost’ and stick to ‘every question, query, doubt’. Google, over a period of time, has turned everyone into a genius. Because Google helps me out at the drop of a hat, it is but natural that I call Google my BFF...

Fault in ‘their stars’

It wasn’t too long ago that the social media was flooded with pictures of the ‘very coy’, lovey-dovey couple - Malaika Arora and Arjun Kapoor - flaunting their undying love for each other. Once they made the affair public, for the next six years, the poor public was subjected to ‘the way they inhaled and exhaled, what they ate, how they fed each other, the vacations they spent, the way they held hands’ - it was as if they were the only couple in the world that defined and redefined ‘love’. And then ..

Pills, Plates, And Prohibition

EVERY morning, at an unearthly hour of 4.30 am, the alarm rings - twice in succession. One signals,‘Rise & Shine’, and the other is a reminder of popping a pill - first of the many that I ingest throughout the day. Even before I brush my teeth, I gulp the tiny pill - to keep my thyroid in check. It’s supposed to be taken on an empty stomach for it to have an effect on the non-functional gland in my body. As the day goes by, the medicinal buffet comes into play - a colourful array of pills are arranged ..

Totally App-sessed

“Oh My God!” I had started hyperventilating. I wasn’t able to locate my phone. Five minutes had gone by and I hadn’t checked the phone. I could hear faint ‘ping, ping’, which meant that notifications were being received, and now the state of affairs is such that if I don’t check the phone every two minutes, it seems that something major is amiss. I searched frantically for it, like a sniffer dog looking for drugs, I concentrated on the direction from where the pings were emanating, and I was finally ..

The Cliché Chronicles

“AND amidst us we have, as Chief Guest of today’s function, Aasawari Shenolikar, who has very kindly agreed to grace the occasion,” the anchorstated. I,sittingon thedais, smilingly acknowledged theMasterofCeremony, and gracefully accepted the sapling that was presented to me. But the thought running through my mind was, “Ah! Here we go again.” I knew exactly what was coming next - because after attending innumerable functions - some as a Guest, a few as one among the many spectators - I sort of knew ..

Running fashionably late

“Ma’am, even though the pooja will be over by 1 pm, you and Sir please come at 1.30 pm for the Prasad.” Jaya was explicit in her instructions, while inviting me and my better half for Prasad at her home. The reason for ‘half an hour after the culmination of the pooja’ was, “You always arrive ten minutes before the appointed time,” which was followed by an emoticon that signified ‘embarrassment’. What I could read between the lines was that ‘my reaching at the appointed hour is many a time a source ..

Lost in translation

“Hi, can you give me a kilo of minced meat?” I asked the butcher. My son-in-law loves goat mutton, and in the USA, where he is currently stationed, goat mutton is a rare commodity. So whenever I go to Chicago, the first thing that we do - my son-in-law and I - is travel 25 miles to shop for goat mutton, so that he can have his fill, till my next visit. But that’s not the hard part - as I realised during my last visit. The real challenge is communicating in ‘English’. Yes, you read that right. I mean ..

Weight & See

“CHUTKI bhar sindoor ki keemat tum kya jaano, Dev Babu,” was what kept running through my mind when discussion at the coffeetable centered around Vinesh Phogat’s 100 gms debacle. While the group debated hotly the Phogat case - some talking in favour, others not so favourably, my thoughts raced to the countless times when a matter of grams may have meant, in my case anyway, the difference between life and death. The pesky grams, that one might think of to be totally insignificant, canmake - or break ..